I knew all along the place I live was expensive, the fact that it costs $1250 per month is only part of the costs and the rest was managable on my income, but I told myself it was okay because it's a great place for my kids to grow up. I still feel this way.
BUT... The reality is that on Employment Insurance (max. $800, bi-weekly) the reality of financial peril is something I need to face.
Costs:
RENT: $1250So... I would need to move to a place that I could rent for ... Okay, so they'd need to pay me.
CS*: $1100
HYDRO:$ 200
GAS: $ 60
FOOD: $ 200
PHONE:$ 200 (incl. Internet/Cable)
BUSES:$ 90 (reduced cost for tickets while looking)
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TOTAL:$3100
If you're reading this you likely know what CS stands for, that's Child Support. I have a responsibility to pay that. It does not go away should I lose my job. I have asked (by e-mail) my ex-wife for some understanding* in this, but my intention is to pay while I can.
I could rant on about the "system" but I won't. There's really no point, they can only demonstrate their compassion by actions. I have my responsibility, get employed, and that is what I will work toward doing.
* UPDATE: My ex-wife has agreed to discuss a fair amount, she's empathetic if not sympathetic and when I have a clear idea of what my situation will be we will make the necessary negotiations. I wonder if I can negotiate my rent too?
